Online COUPLES COUNSELLING

 

  • I am a certified Imago couples’ therapist. This means I have completed the clinical training and demonstrated my skills in this approach.
  • I offer online couple therapy via video consultations.
  • I enjoy helping a wide range of couples, and I warmly welcome same-sex couples, all members of the LGBTQIA+ community, and people from all ethnic/cultural backgrounds. I am a native French speaker and can use French in my work with you, if required.

 

Bring back the joy of being together. 

     All couples meet difficulties over time. Some face a crisis (an affair, destructive jealousy, loss of trust). Others are going round in cycles, falling in & out of love, patching up conflicts with another ‘new start’, feeling hopeless, then hopeful and back again. The lucky ones already have a good relationship but sense they can raise their level of satisfaction and have a genuine connection.

     Difficult times in your relationship are painful, but they can pave the way to longer-lasting happiness together. We all want to replace discomfort and pain in our couple with feeling connected, seen and validated by our partner. That’s what the Imago approach excels at. I can help you build your best relationship.

What is IMAGO ?. 

     I genuinely love the IMAGO Relationship Therapy model. It’s the best approach I know to help couples, whether they are struggling or simply want a closer connection. It is a very practical method which has helped thousands of couples all over the world to bring back the joy of being together. Because Imago addresses the way we relate within our relationship, it is effective for all couples and all types of difficulties, regardless of age, sexual orientation, race, cultural background, and social status.

     Imago focuses and builds on the positive aspects of your relationship, those which are already there, and it guides you to build the best version of your couple. Ultimately, Imago is about helping you (re)experience a sense of real connection with your partner. This is the glue which will hold you together when you feel pulled in different directions.

 

Learn to overcome your differences. 

     Unlike more traditional approaches to couple counselling, Imago will first focus on helping you to communicate in a way that feels safe for both of you, before addressing the most painful aspects of your relationship. Imago will help you talk without triggering each-other. It will allow you to really hear each other, and get each-other’s experiences. This paves the way to overcoming your differences. I can bring to you the wonders of Imago Relationship Therapy.

What will our couple therapy be like?

.   Because the Imago approach focuses on communicating without raising each other’s defences, it often feels different from what people expect from couple therapy. Couples often have a positive feeling after an Imago appointment, even when they have discussed a difficult topic.

.   The first appointment is generally 60 minutes long. It will be a chance for us to decide whether we are a good match and want to work together. In this appointment you will start to reconnect and learn and use the basics of the Imago approach. Following appointments generally last 90 minutes each, and usually take place every other week. In these appointments I will help you use the Imago tools to address the difficult aspects of your relationship, deepen your connection with each other and work together towards a satisfying relationship.

.   Imago is not just about fixing the current crisis in your relationship. It's about setting your couple on a different course, in which you both feel happier, connected and safe.